Chiqa keeps complaining about how her math teacher is not helpful at all and I am inclined to get into parent mode and be like "You should listen to her better she wants the best for you" but as true as the latter can be, speaking from fresh experience there are teachers who really are incompetent, and is more trouble than useful
I've had fair shares of great, average and bad teachers and thankfully my mind space is mature enough to realise I can handle them all
But for mere children like baby chiqa and her classmates, a bad teacher can very well be the downfall of their motivation, love for learning and growth
We can't pin these on self choices alone- kids are so easily moulded that it's just wrong for them to be around people who doesnt encourage positive growth
And now all I can say is- I know your teacher may suck, and you probably in return have no motivation to learn from her and failing her classes will demoralise you even further, but there's always an alternative
Yes, this new generation is freaking strawberries they can get so weak and fragile and it always feels like i'm treading on eggshells dealing with them like it is so common for kids to have depression and suicidal thoughts these days it's not a joke, I deeply wished it was but it's not
As tempting as it is to blame upbringing and whatever, it is still undeniably the case currently-bso what we have to do to move forward is to give them the proper support they need
That being said there is no direct correlation between the ideal ways of upbringing and the outcome
So many, too many circumstances will affect how a child will turn out, and a child's behaviour doesn't always last- people change so constantly
What's most important is to remember they are just children who is learning how to live, and they deserve the best of what the world can offer
Leave the suffering to adults ok let us collectively agree on this
Leave the most love for the babies of the world
♡
I feel really deeply for circumstances affecting growth, like I used to think mindset is everything but circumstances really do affect your life in ways you can't control.
You can choose to be positive and that's beyond amazing, but there will still be restrictions to your growth
Basically your full potential is harder to reach with your limitations
But as long as you keep on pushing for growth, no matter how slow and painful it gets,
You will get there
I heard the radio a few minutes before breaking fast earlier and the dude was saying how whilst hardship may seem like a blatant disadvantage, affluence might very well instead be our downfall because we might stop remembering god and get more focused on worldly gains whereas in hardship we find ourselves praying for support and thinking and relying so much on Him.
Whatever place we're in, whatever problems and successes we have, it's our personal battles and all we can actively do is make lives of people around us easier and hope they do the same for us too, insyaallah
ps to educators, i think you can tell when you suck. just do everyone a favour and either find love and passion for the job or leave- this applies to educators of ALL ages im sure there are people out there more passionate to impart knowledge than you are passionate about keeping a secure job
pps everyone's situation is different yes, but like I said, do something about it. TRY smarter and kinder. K bye
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03.46am
Bullcrap blogger back at it again yay I typed and it disappeared
Was saying how I thought it was 1.48amish and that I told myself to sleep early and have a full day tomorrow but
Eh
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06.05am
Just got done (barely) editing a vlog and I hope my phone processes it well hahahaha it's so long I don't usually keep my vlogs that long
Also sudden burst of motivation as usual comes very inexplicably
But I like it
Setting my alarm for no reason today but I will give it a reason
Probably will try to sleep before my usual bedtime at 9am hahahaha so I can get up normal human time and do things in public (im talking about going to the library I can promise you once libraries and swimming pools turn 24 hours I will no longer have a problem with my sleep schedule)
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08.42am
Right after posting the above I decided I shouldn't do things I don't feel like doing such as sleep before i'm sleepy so here I am
Still setting my alarm earlyish so I can have a lovely day ahead
I hope the groups starting rehearsals today have fun huhu