Hello!
So, i was thinking.
How easy would life be if relations were easily fixed.
If people just didn't do bad for the sake of selfishness.
If people don't easily judge and assume.
If people don't talk indirectly on social media.
And just be frank about their feelings.
Because i'm pretty sure these petty misunderstandings came out from assumption.
One party not realising that the other party is unhappy, and the unhappy party assuming that they're being ditched for something better.
If only we asked.
If only we talked it out, discussed.
Everyone would understand that there was no mistake in the first place.
It was just baseless assumptions cemented by own thoughts and feelings, and the other party's actions.
We can make anything into anything, including making mountains out of molehills.
//cliche i know, bear with me here//
and because of this, precious relations are thrown away.
we'd prefer to keep the good memories than try to fix the strained relations.
Ask ourselves, is that worth it?
If you're looking for answers, you can ask yourself. Ask your parents. Ask your friends, your enemies.
Ask me.
We can all give you the world's best, most succint and accurate answer.
But it all comes down to you.
Your frame of mind, attitude.
What you choose to believe in.
And you can only blame your mind.